A warm welcome ✨ I am a Tantra practitioner and somatic intimacy coach, supporting those who wish to deepen their connection to their body, pleasure, and intimate life. I am based in Berlin and often travel internationally.
Neo-Tantra, a modern adaptation of traditional Tantra, focuses primarily on the sexual and relational aspects of the practice. Emerging in the West during the 20th century, Neo-Tantra blends ancient Tantric techniques with contemporary understandings of psychology, sexuality, and personal development. It emphasizes the use of breathwork, energy awareness, and conscious touch to foster intimacy, pleasure, and personal growth.
About Me
I create a calm, attentive space where you can slow down, feel safe, and be met with care. People often describe my presence as warm, grounded, and deeply attuned.
My journey into Tantra began in Berlin in 2020, when I completed my first Tantra Massage training. Since then, I have continued to evolve through study and practice in Tantra, bodywork, somatic sexology, and yoga. My sessions weave together these modalities, guided by your intentions and my intuition.
Tantric & Intimacy Trainings
Tantra
Tantra Massage (Berlin, 2020) ✧ Tantric Embodiment I (InnerCamp, 2023) ✧ ISTA Level 1 (2025)
Somatic Sexology
Sexological Bodywork (Institute of Somatic Sexology, 2025)
Yoga & Embodiment Trainings
Massage
Sports and Regeneration Massage (Czechia, 2019) ✧ Oil and Aromatherapy Massage (Thailand, 2022) ✧ Thai Massage I + II (Thailand, 2022)
Yoga
Hatha Yoga 200hrs (Thailand, 2022) ✧ Yin Yoga 50hrs (Thailand, 2022) ✧ Jivamukti Yoga 350+hrs (Berlin, 2022-now)
Sound Healing
Gong Master (Berlin, 2023)
Breathwork
Conscious Connected Breathwork (Berlin, 2023)
Energy Work
Reiki I (Thailand, 2022)
Offerings
Explore the world of Tantra with me 💫 My offerings are available for both individuals and couples, in person or online. I’m happy to meet in Berlin or travel to connect with you wherever you are. Each experience is designed to help you come closer to yourself, whether you wish to slow down, reconnect with your body, awaken pleasure, or deepen intimacy.
Tantric Bodywork
This journey is for anyone who wishes to explore Tantric practices and connect more deeply with themselves, held in a safe, nurturing space.
We begin with simple connection practices such as eye gazing, tuning into the heart, and a short guided meditation. In longer sessions, yoga-inspired stretching and somatic exercises prepare the body for deeper relaxation.
You are then invited into a slow, mindful massage that blends soft and firm touch, balancing energy and awakening sensitivity. Breathwork guides you to deepen body awareness and activate the natural flow of energy. Essential oils and sound healing may further support your senses.
The session closes with a moment of stillness to rest and integrate the experience. You may leave feeling more balanced, peaceful, and connected to your body.
This is a holistic, Tantric-inspired journey. It does not include intimate massage or nudity.
90 min ~ 200 EUR
2 hrs ~ 250 EUR
3 hrs ~ 300 EUR
Women’s Tantra Massage
This offering is for women who wish to explore their sensuality, reconnect with their bodies, or release past experiences that no longer serve them.
We begin with a conversation about intentions and boundaries to create a safe, supportive container, followed by connection practices such as eye gazing and tuning into your heart to help you arrive in the present moment.
The session continues with a gentle full-body massage and, if desired, yoni mapping or massage ~ a conscious exploration to release tension, awaken sensitivity, and experience pleasure.
The session closes with stillness and reflection, followed by a follow-up message the next day to support your ongoing integration.
You may experience this as a one-time immersive session, or combine it with Somatic Intimacy Coaching sessions to prepare your body and deepen the experience.
1 session ~ 450 EUR (3–4 hrs)
Tantric Journey ~ 750 EUR (3 × 90 min Somatic Intimacy Coaching + 1 × Tantra Massage)
4 hrs ～ 2000 SGD
Somatic Intimacy Coaching
This coaching supports those who wish to deepen body awareness, pleasure, and intimacy ~ whether from curiosity or in response to challenges such as numbness, tension, shame, communication difficulties, or issues with arousal and orgasm. Couples are also welcome.
Sessions are client-led and centered around somatic learning. Using methods such as breathwork, mindful movement, body mapping, scar tissue remediation, and connection practices, we explore the intention you bring.
Each session concludes with integration time, allowing the body to absorb what it has learned, followed by reflection on insights and next steps.
This work is most effective when experienced as a series, as much of the learning unfolds in daily life and is supported through custom practices and ongoing guidance between sessions.
1 session (90 min) ~ 200 EUR (in person) / 160 EUR (online)
3-session package ~ 500 EUR (in person) / 400 EUR (online)
5-session package ~ 750 EUR (in person) / 600 EUR (online)
Couple’s Tantra Immersion
A one-day Couples Tantra Workshop is designed to introduce Tantra and teach the art of Tantra massage, focusing on both partners. You will learn techniques for conscious touch, connection practices, and ways to explore pleasure together.
A three-day Couples Tantra Retreat goes beyond Tantra massage, allowing for a deeper exploration of touch, intimacy, desires, and spiritual connection. Guided by your intentions, we may focus on somatic aspects of intimacy, energetic and spiritual dimensions of Tantra, or areas of erotic curiosity.
Each experience is fully personalized to your wishes and schedule, creating a unique and memorable journey.
To support your ongoing growth, each offering includes a 60-minute integration call after the experience to help you bring the insights and practices into your daily life.
1-day Couples Tantra Workshop ~ 1000 EUR
3-day Couples Tantra Retreat ~ 2500 EUR
Please note: prices for immersive experiences do not include venue, accommodation, or travel expenses. These will be confirmed as part of your booking.
Booking
If you would like to meet me, please fill out the contact form. I encourage booking in advance; same-day bookings are less likely to be accommodated as I usually have a busy schedule, and I need to prepare for our meeting. Before we meet, I kindly request screening information and a deposit.
Contact Form
Screening
Screening is an important step to create a safe container for our sessions. As I work with intimacy, I cannot meet complete strangers. It’s important for me to know who I am connecting with to build trust.
For the screening, you may choose one of the following options:
- A link to your social media or LinkedIn profile (the account should show your photo and appear active and genuine)
- A link to your professional website
- A reference from a practitioner you’ve worked with in the last 2 years (please ask for their consent before listing them)
- A government-issued ID, driver’s license, or passport showing your photo and full name (other details can be hidden)
The information you provide will be used solely for screening purposes and will remain confidential. I am also happy to sign a confidentiality agreement at the beginning of our sessions.
Deposit
The deposit secures our time together and demonstrates mutual commitment. Your session is fully confirmed once the deposit is received. For shorter sessions, the deposit is 20%, while longer sessions (4+ hours) require a 40% deposit.
Deposit options:
- Crypto
- Bank transfer (Wise — multiple currency options available)
- My wishlist (please note Throne charges a small transaction fee)
- A gift card of my choice
The remaining balance can be paid at the beginning of the session, either in cash or via an online payment method.
Cancellation
I understand that life can be unpredictable, and sometimes plans need to change. To honor both your time and mine, here’s how cancellations are handled:
- For sessions under 4 hours, if you cancel with at least 24 hours’ notice, your deposit can be applied to a rescheduled session within the next 6 months.
- If a session is canceled within 24 hours, the deposit will be held in appreciation of the time reserved for you.
- Longer sessions (4+ hours) require extended preparation; if canceled, the deposit is non-refundable and rescheduling is not possible.
- For multi-day sessions or sessions involving travel, cancellations less than 3 days before the start of the experience require the full session fee, to honor the arrangements and energy invested.
- For any missed sessions without notice, the full session fee will be requested.
Thank you for your understanding. These guidelines allow me to create an intentional space for your experience.
FAQ
How can I prepare for our session?
- Set an intention. Reflect on what you’d like to experience, explore, or learn about yourself.
- Choose the right time. Pick a day and time with no immediate obligations afterward, so you have space to process and integrate the session.
- Create a sacred space. If the session is at your place, prepare an environment where you feel safe and at ease ~ soft lighting, candles, your favorite scents, or anything that makes the space welcoming. For massage sessions, place towels or blankets on a bed to avoid oil stains; otherwise, I will bring everything we need. Make sure the space is warm enough.
- Shower. Decide whether you’d like to shower beforehand or at the start of the session. You can also turn it into a mini ritual, tuning into your senses as the water touches your skin, optionally ending with a splash of cold water to awaken your body.
- Center yourself. Take a few deep breaths and tune into your body. Allow yourself to arrive fully in the moment and be open to the experience, wherever it may take you.
Do you follow any guidelines during your work?
To create a safe space, I honor these guidelines in my sessions:
- During the session, I remain fully clothed, either wrapped in a sarong or in regular clothes.
- All touch is one-way, from me to the client, or between partners in couples’ work.
- In one-to-one sessions with men, I do not include nudity or intimate touch.
- For intimate touch in one-on-one sessions with women, I use medical gloves.
- Sessions are trauma-informed, but I am not certified to treat trauma. I can provide referrals if needed.
- Everything that happens in sessions is confidential. I am happy to sign a confidentiality agreement to support a feeling of safety.
Do you offer Tantra Massage for men?
Currently, I offer Tantric Bodywork or Somatic Intimacy Coaching sessions for men, as well as immersive experiences for couples where the man is present. In one-to-one sessions with men I do not include nudity or intimate touch. However, we may explore intimacy and desire in a somatic, non-explicit way, and you may receive home practices related to self-touch or erotic embodiment. These boundaries are non-negotiable and help me stay clearly in the role of guide and facilitator, creating a safe space where deep transformation can happen ✨
Can I experience the Tantra Immersion offering as a single person?
Absolutely! For the workshop format, we can adapt the session and search for a massage model together. I’m also open to creating a private retreat for one person, preferably someone I’ve worked with before. Feel free to reach out if you’re interested, and we can discuss the details.
What should I do after our session?
After a session, it’s good to take some time for relaxation, reflection, and self-care:
- Journal about your experience, noting any feelings, sensations, or insights that arose.
- Ground yourself if the session was intense. Try deep, slow breaths, bringing awareness to your feet while standing or walking, gentle stretching, eating a nourishing meal mindfully, or taking a warm shower or bath.
- Let the experience settle. Avoid overstimulating activities such as scrolling your phone, intense workouts, or large social gatherings, and postpone major decisions if possible.
I’m always here if you’d like to discuss your experience or have any questions.
What if your offerings are out of my budget?
I understand that my sessions and retreats may not be accessible to everyone. If this is the case, there are still ways to connect with and benefit from my work:
- Follow along online: Subscribe to my Substack or follow me on social media for free guidance, tips, and insights into Tantra, somatic practices, and intimacy.
- Group experiences: Keep an eye out for workshops or group offerings, which can be more accessible and affordable than one-to-one sessions.
- Reach out: If the price is a barrier but you feel drawn to work together, feel free to contact me. We may be able to find alternative ways to engage with the work.
Testimonials
Meeting Sophie was a truly transformative and deeply relaxing experience. She created a safe and comfortable environment from the moment I walked in and her intuitive touch and genuine care allowed me to fully surrender and connect with my body in ways I never imagined. The session left me feeling balanced and blissfully at peace. Thank you!
— Matt
Experiencing the Couples Tantra Retreat with Sophie was transformative for us. She created a supportive space where we felt seen and guided. Through conscious touch, connection practices, and somatic exploration, we deepened our trust, pleasure, and communication. We left feeling closer than ever (emotionally, physically, and energetically). An unforgettable journey.
— Emma & Lucas
Sophie’s sessions helped me reconnect with my body and my sensuality in a way I never imagined. Through breath, touch, and movement, I learned to feel more present and open to pleasure. I loved the tools and practices she shared with me and return to them often. I recommend Sophie to anyone who is ready to go deeper into themselves.
— Elena
Resources
If you’re curious to explore the topics that inspire my work, here are a few of my favorite books and resources:
The Art of Sexual Ecstasy – Margot Anand
Urban Tantra – Barbara Carrellas
Tantra Illuminated – Christopher D. Wallis
Come As You Are – Emily Nagoski
The Wheel of Consent – Betty Martin
Mating in Captivity – Esther Perel
Polysecure – Jessica Fern
The Body Keeps the Score – Bessel van der Kolk
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